All Posts – Dr. Randy Cale

03 Dec

Why Consequences Don’t Work: It’s All About Proximity.

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In All Posts, Brain Neurofeedback, Consequences, Parent Coaching
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Some prospective clients seeking Neurofeedback to improve their child’s behavior report problems with their child’s inability to regulate behavior. Parents report, ‘Consequences just don’t work for my son…something is wrong in their brain.’ At times, we find significant dysregulation in

19 Nov

Thanksgiving: The Expression of Gratitude

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Imagine my delight when reminded of the definition of ‘Thanksgiving.’ It’s more than just a holiday; it means the ‘expression of gratitude.’ Such a simple definition may seem unremarkable initially, but I invite you to dig into this with me.

12 Nov

Optimize Life by Utilizing Natural Brain Tendencies

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In recent years, research has revealed an essential tendency in our brains. Utilizing this propensity can give us more control over our lives and bring us more of what we want. The Primacy Effect Whatever captures our attention NOW takes

31 Oct

Stop Trying To Make It Easier

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In All Posts, Anxiety & Fear, Parent Coaching
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In this persistently challenging world, don’t you wonder how best to successfully equip our children to navigate these rough waters of life? Indeed, no simple answer will come close here. Yet, it seems that we find ourselves daily lamenting about

15 Oct

The Dangers of Unlimited Phone Use

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In All Posts, Anxiety, Anxiety & Fear, Behavior Issues, Brain Neurofeedback, Healthy Habits, Parent Coaching, Technology
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In today’s digital era, teenagers are practically married to their phones. As parents look on, perhaps with a sigh of relief that their teenager is quiet and preoccupied, there is an underlying problem. Some of us have acknowledged this problem,

08 Oct

Update on The One Percent Solution

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In ADD & ADHD, ADHD, All About Life, All Posts, Anxiety, Anxiety & Fear, Brain Neurofeedback, Parent Coaching
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A few years back, I traveled to Chicago and had an interesting conversation with my new friend for three hours. He was 68 and off to windsurf in Hawaii for two weeks. As I asked him about his greatest insight

01 Oct

Dealing with Children’s Worries

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In All Posts, Anxiety, Anxiety & Fear, Brain Neurofeedback, Parent Coaching
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Daily, the news is filled with horrific incidents worldwide, such as terrorism or the seemingly endless shooting sprees at workplaces, schools, and military bases. In addition, the political climate reflected in the media intrigues many parents and children to become

10 Sep

Get a Headstart on the Day: Make Mornings Easy.

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In All Posts, Daily Routines, Parent Coaching, Routines & Structure
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For some, mornings are the worst part of the day. The constant conflict, the nagging and prodding, and the escalating emotions often result in an angry and frustrated goodbye between parents and children. The conflicted start to the day is

03 Sep

What We Are Focusing On Needs Attention!

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In All Posts, Anxiety, Anxiety & Fear, Brain Neurofeedback, Parent Coaching
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Most of us go through our daily lives not recognizing the power of focus. If we’re listening to the news, and something catches us, we focus on it. If we’re standing in line and there’s a grumpy patron in front

20 Aug

Control or Dictate: You Choose.

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I think it’s fair to say that many of us have had experiences working with others where leadership skills were lacking. Perhaps you’ve had a manager, coach, or friend handle you like you were a ‘subject’ to be told what