consequences – Dr. Randy Cale

03 Dec

Why Consequences Don’t Work: It’s All About Proximity.

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In All Posts, Brain Neurofeedback, Consequences, Parent Coaching
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Some prospective clients seeking Neurofeedback to improve their child’s behavior report problems with their child’s inability to regulate behavior. Parents report, ‘Consequences just don’t work for my son…something is wrong in their brain.’ At times, we find significant dysregulation in

26 Jan

We Are Making Life Harder Part 2

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In All Posts, Chores, Family Rules & Limits Setting, Parent Coaching
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Now More Than Ever: Making It Easy… Makes It Hard? Let’s assume this: Every choice comes with a consequence. When the consequences of any given choices are obvious and immediate, everyone seems to gets it. However, when the consequences are

04 Oct

Final Steps of the Terrific Parenting System

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In Accountability & Responsibility, All Posts, Parent Coaching
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In the past two posts, I discussed the initial three steps of my simple system for bringing responsibility and ease to your home. When doing so, your life, as well as your children’s lives, become filled with a rhythm and

20 Sep

Limits: Why These Are Essential

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In All Posts, Family Rules & Limits Setting, Parent Coaching
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As some of you may recall, a few weeks ago, I discussed the importance of creating a home with limits that reflect ‘reality.’ In other words, in the real world, choices come with consequences. Those consequences are, at times, quite

24 Apr

Three Failing Strategies

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In All About Life, All Posts, Parent Coaching
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Often, when things begin to unravel in our lives, our tendency is to worry and fret. If we do that long enough, this process turns into depressive thoughts and life gets even heavier. Our strategies tend to be ruminative and

20 Apr

The Simple Course on HOW to Set Limits that Work!

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In All Posts, Family Rules & Limits Setting, Parent Coaching, Technology
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Just this week, I encountered a delightful couple working hard to raise their two children with limits. They presented me with a beautifully typed-out list of rules for their home. Yet, as both parents acknowledged, these rules were the source